Jill Robin Payne

The 3 Personalities: A Leader; A Follower; A Compromiser. Which are You?

The 3 Personalities: A Leader; A Follower; A Compromiser. Which are You?

Bempathy®: Know Yourself, Connect Better

Bempathy® is all about blending banter with empathy and having a win/win mindset. It’s built on the 6 C’s (check out the Bempathy® Series!).

Today we’re focusing on the three personalities that shape everything we do: Leader, Follower, and Compromiser. Which one are you? Bonus: you can be all three depending on the timing and situation.

Your Personality Speaks (Literally!)
Personality shows up in how you talk, stand, move, and even think. Leaders tend to shine with traits like:

✅ Integrity people trust ✅ Communication that clicks ✅ Emotional intelligence ✅ Strategic thinking ✅ Delegating without losing your cool

Do any of these sound like you? If yes, that’s your leadership personality shining through!

Being a Rockstar Follower
Great followers aren’t just tagging along—they’re the secret sauce that makes a team thrive. They:

✔️ Know their stuff ✔️ Think for themselves ✔️ Are honest and dependable ✔️ Adapt and communicate smoothly

Do any of these resonate with you? Following well isn’t about being in the shadows; it’s about lighting up the team with your skills and smarts!

Compromise Like a Pro
Compromisers are the “peace whisperers” who find a middle ground where everyone wins. The best ones are:

✔️ Open-minded and flexible ✔️ Patient under pressure ✔️ Great listeners

True compromise balances honesty, collaboration, and results—so no one walks away grumbling. Does this sound like you?

Know Yourself, Connect Better
In today’s AI-driven, digital world, knowing who you are—and who you want in your life—is more important than ever. You can be all three: a strong leader, a smart follower, and a savvy compromiser. Next time you’re communicating, pause and ask: Who am I right now? Seeing yourself clearly turns interactions into true win/win situations—and that’s the power of Bempathy®.

Time to Bring Back REAL Connection with Bempathy®!

Bempathy® isn’t just a concept—it’s a movement to bring back real conversations in a world that’s becoming silent and disconnected.

Let’s make talking fun again—so we WIN in friendships, work, and life!

Take Action: Don’t Let Connection Go Cold!

Spark real human connection today! Here’s how:

Tap the link in bio to grab the Bempathy® Series on Amazon Also Meeting People: It’s Not A Game on Audio! Start practicing banter—say hi to someone today! Comment on my platforms @jillrobinpayne: What’s your personality?

Bempathy® Tip: Know who you are and get what you want. Ask yourself: Are You A Leader, A Follower, A Compromiser or All Three?

Beacon – The Leader; Brighten – The Follower; Bow the dog – The Compromiser

What personality are you?