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🚀Orbiting in Dating: Respond the Bempathy® Way
Have you ever been ghosted… but they still watch your Instagram stories or like your posts?
That’s not connection — it’s called orbiting in dating. A modern red flag that keeps you emotionally hanging on while they stay distant.
💫 What Is Orbiting in Dating?
Orbiting happens when someone stops direct communication but keeps engaging with your social media — viewing stories, liking photos, or reacting to posts.
They’ve ghosted you in texts but not in clicks.
😶 Why Do People Orbit?
Common reasons:
- They’re curious but not ready
- They crave attention but not commitment
- They’re emotionally unavailable
- They fear confrontation or clarity
The problem? You’re left confused.
👀 How to Handle Orbiting Using Bempathy®
Here’s where Bempathy® communication makes a difference.
It’s the practice of banter + empathy — and seeing the third side of the coin.
1️⃣ Check In with Yourself (Self-Awareness)
Ask:
- What am I feeling?
- Am I wanting connection or just avoiding rejection?
This is your Conversing with Self© moment — one of the tools of Bempathy®.
2️⃣ Get Curious, Not Crushed
Ask:
- “Is this really about me?”
- “What patterns am I noticing?”
A curious mindset prevents overreaction.
3️⃣ Communicate Clearly (Optional)
Say:
“Hey, I noticed we haven’t connected directly in a while, but you’re still engaging online. I appreciate honesty and just wanted clarity — no pressure.”
Clarity beats confusion. Every time.
4️⃣ Protect Your Peace
You’re allowed to:
- Mute or unfollow
- Block if necessary
- Stop checking who’s watching
- Choose people who choose you
🌟 Final Thought on Orbiting
If someone keeps orbiting but avoids connection, it’s not love — it’s limbo.
Use Bempathy® communication to stay grounded, get clarity, and build real connection.
Don’t settle for digital breadcrumbs — your attention deserves a full meal.
Bempathy® Tip: If someone’s orbiting you, use Bempathy® to create comfort through clarity. Say something like, “I prefer clear communication—this feels a bit unclear.” Setting calm limits isn’t harsh, it’s honest. When others know where you stand, connection (or closure) becomes easier. That’s the Bempathy® way!
The book “Meeting People: It’s Not A Game – Your Path To Genuine Connections Thru Bempathy®” has more answers for you on how to handle Emotionally Unavailable people.
Bempathy® Simplifies!