- Do you feel “disconnected” from your partner in this “connected” world?
- Are you in a “relationship” yet feel alone?
- When you talk to your partner are they also using an electronic device?
- Are you wanting intimacy and only getting sex (if that)?
Men and women, women and women, men and men. If it is an intimate partnership they are all the same when it comes to having difficulty feeling “connected.” People think that having sex is intimacy. Believe it or not it is a “part” of intimacy. Intimacy is tenderness, closeness, understanding, and most of all “friendship.”
With the internet supposedly getting everyone more connected and reaching out to more people it is giving people the ‘illusion’ of becoming ‘closer’ then they really are. This is a problem in today’s society. People jump into a relationship just as quickly as they are jumping out.
And why not. Just tune into the internet on your phone or computer and find someone else at the drop of a “finger tap.” Do you want to become more “emotionally” connected and have better sex?
Excerpts from Part 2 of my book: Meeting People; It’s Not A Game
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